Love with horny a 30 yo milf

My life needs a boost. Because it's getting boring, unfortunately. My husband and I can't seem to figure it out; we simply have different perspectives. He doesn't see a problem, so he doesn't have to solve anything. That's his opinion, and he won't be talked out of it. So I'll solve my problem myself. Maybe you can help me?

Things have been nothing but war with my boyfriend lately; nothing I do is right, and that makes me insecure. So I'm here for fun.

I'd much rather have sex without any effort. Of course, I do put in some effort during sex, but the whole process beforehand is just not my thing. You either like each other or you don't, why all the fuss? We could just jump into bed together, right? Nice and easy, and quick and enjoyable.

I'm really longing for an adventure right now. I'm missing some excitement in my life, and everything feels dull. Even sex at home feels boring. I want to break through this by embarking on a really sexy and exciting adventure. I call it a sex adventure.