Sexdate with a wild 38 yo mother

I think it would be fantastic to look to the future with a nice guy. Starting a family, you know the drill—a house, a tree, a pet—all those things are what I'm looking forward to.

I love swimming, I'm also in a swimming club, and I'm really good at lifeguarding. My fantasy involves water; I'd like to have sex in a pool sometime. Secretly, though, because I don't want to shock other people.

Please read! I'm looking for friendship first, if this clicks (purely platonic...so no sex!!!) first through here...no texting, and if it sounds serious, then probably meet up. Very slow and steady.

I've been on the road trying to find the man of my dreams, going to singles parties, going out, and taking singles vacations. Not once have I met a nice man with whom I want to build a life, and I hope I'll have more success this way.