Hook up with a sweet 35 yo milf

Every now and then I've had a naughty thought, and it's about a man other than my boyfriend, the one I'm spending a nice evening with. I hope to find someone here who's interested in that with me.

My life needs a boost. Because it's getting boring, unfortunately. My husband and I can't seem to figure it out; we simply have different perspectives. He doesn't see a problem, so he doesn't have to solve anything. That's his opinion, and he won't be talked out of it. So I'll solve my problem myself. Maybe you can help me?

I finally have time for myself. In my marriage, I've primarily devoted all my attention to my husband. His career was my priority, and I had to attend some parties I didn't want to attend. I'm glad to be rid of that and to welcome a new man into my life.

Now that I'm living with my partner, I do miss going out. I used to go to clubs where you could find people into (soft) SM, but that's no longer possible. My boyfriend doesn't want to know about it either, so I can't talk to him about it either. Maybe I can find someone here who's into it too?