Hook up with a amateur 49 yo woman

Bondage is my greatest pleasure, and especially the feeling of being at your mercy. I drip and writhe with hot lust, and I want to experience this lust with a man I don't know. I've never cheated in my marriage, and now I really want to. You can be married too, as far as I'm concerned. Sex is all about bondage and lust for you.

I'm actually doing this purely out of curiosity, to see if anyone will respond to me. I'm a bit insecure after my divorce and curious if I'm still available ;-)

My sex life is just too boring. My husband tries, but he just doesn't get me. He can't find the right buttons, and I never come with him. Is it me, or does he just not know how to do it?

I have many friends around me who are always willing to support me when I'm having a hard time. I don't have a true friend who is also my lover, and that's exactly what I'm looking forward to meeting.