Dating with a wild 38 yo mother

I'm completely fed up with it, because my husband barely looks at me anymore. Forty is the new thirty, and I want to live that way to the fullest. I really only ask you one thing: fuck me silly a few times a week!

I love sex, but not one-night stands or quickies. It has to be built up slowly. First, eat together in a cozy restaurant. Then, for example, go to the cinema or a café, and then somewhere to enjoy each other's company. I'm not someone who jumps into bed with the first man I see. Many of my friends do, and they think I should too if I really want sex. But no, that's really not for me. I'd feel like a prostitute, and that's the last thing I want to be. Nothing negative about those women, but it's your choice, right?

There's a man in my life who isn't in my house, but my relationship isn't quite right. I'd love to be spoiled, secretly, by another nice man.

A friend said to me, "Gosh, sign up here." So I did. She found a nice man here, and if she can do it, I should be able to too, right?