Dating with a wild 38 yo mother

I lived with my ex for six months, and we did it way too quickly. We didn't know each other that long, and we got together right away. I don't want that to happen again. I want to get to know you well before we take any further steps.

I am honest, straightforward, cheerful and looking for a nice man to do fun things with, anything goes, like going out for dinner, going to the cinema, or just enjoying the outdoors in nice weather.

Looking for a man who doesn't smoke or drink. Other than that, I have absolutely no requirements! I'm a bit cautious and shy at first when we meet, but that quickly fades once I get to know you better.

He seemed so nice, that man of mine. But he's not. He's not from here and blames me for coming here for me. Well, he can go back, of course. But without me. I'm having a great time here, even better without him. I'm going to do what I want, and I won't worry about him anymore. Can I go out with you for a night?