Love with a lonesome 37 yo mother

I love sex, but not one-night stands or quickies. It has to be built up slowly. First, eat together in a cozy restaurant. Then, for example, go to the cinema or a café, and then somewhere to enjoy each other's company. I'm not someone who jumps into bed with the first man I see. Many of my friends do, and they think I should too if I really want sex. But no, that's really not for me. I'd feel like a prostitute, and that's the last thing I want to be. Nothing negative about those women, but it's your choice, right?

My sex life is just too boring. My husband tries, but he just doesn't get me. He can't find the right buttons, and I never come with him. Is it me, or does he just not know how to do it?

Hi, I'm 40 and work as a primary school teacher in Amsterdam. My hobbies are reading, being creative, and spending time with friends and family. Want to know more? Send me a message.

I argue with my boyfriend every day; it's time for a change.