Fling with a sensual 54 yo woman

I'm reliable, open, and honest. I have a sense of humor, but I can also be serious. I'm looking for a partner to share everything with. I'm not looking for a prince on a white horse, and therefore don't have a set of requirements to meet. I hope it's the same the other way around. I'm looking for someone who sees beyond the surface and sees the real person behind it. And who's willing to give that person a fair chance and won't immediately give up on the first thing that doesn't suit them. We all have our own baggage (without wanting to be overly harsh about it) and imperfections. The trick is to respect and accept that, and still like each other.

My life needs a boost. Because it's getting boring, unfortunately. My husband and I can't seem to figure it out; we simply have different perspectives. He doesn't see a problem, so he doesn't have to solve anything. That's his opinion, and he won't be talked out of it. So I'll solve my problem myself. Maybe you can help me?

I also have my drawbacks, but I'm sure you won't mind if we meet regularly for an erotic evening. I love a romantic evening followed by a night of passion.

I love sexy conversations, but still civilized. The tension has to be really built up. We have to feel it and want it so badly that we can't wait any longer. And when it does happen, isn't it an explosion of emotions?